Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Why Should Not Get Revenge

By Marcy Becker


Regardless of how you tend to be the nicest person in the block, there will always come a time when somebody will take advantage of this and sometimes, he might end up succeeding in hurting you. In fact, he might hurt you so deep that you might even come to a point where you want to get revenge. Before you do so, however, it is important that you will properly consider what it's effects are first.

To most people these days, justice can only be considered served if they get to inflict the same harm and pain and suffering to those people who did the same thing to them. They feel that their personal sense of justice can only be considered fully at work if they will inflict upon these people the same things that were inflicted on them. They feel that only by doing this can they confront their selves.

However, one might actually find out that doing so may not really be as sweet as they would want it to be. They will find that the things which they are about to do will not really make them happier in the process. It id a bitter act to begin with. They should realize that something so bitter will not possible bring them something so sweet as a result. They'll be taking a bitter pill still.

You'll find too, that having to plot out all these schemes you have towards letting other people suffer the way did can tax and drain you. At the end of all these plotting, you'll find yourself way too drained, both physically and mentally. You will find, however, that at the end of each day, doing so is not really worth the effort and the energy you exerted towards achieving the results you wish to get.

You'll find too, that the pleasure you will experience out of doing all these stuff is going to be happiness that's short-lived. The joy and the pleasure you experience out doing all these things will not really be the real deal. The hurt will come and the more that it will too, since you have made other people suffer too. That alone can be a great bother to your conscience.

Remember that doing the same thing as these people have done to you is not going to make you any better than these people. If you think they have been monsters for doing those things to you in the past, you are going to be one just like them if you will choose to do the same thing to them as well. If anything, it does not really cause you to become a lesser evil because it is bad just the same.

You have to understand that not only are all these plans taxing, they can cause serious concerns for your health too. Nobody ended up being at the peak of their health just because they have opted to go for the people who wronged them. The stress itself, that you have to deal with to make sure things will work is more than enough to take its toll ion you.

Besides, when you get revenge, it might backfire. You can't always say that your plans will be foolproof. In this case, carrying them out might only cause you to be hurt more than ever. So, better leave justice to be served on the proper venues and don' take things into your own hands.




About the Author:



0 Comments:

Post a Comment

Subscribe to Post Comments [Atom]

<< Home